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Shelley ([personal profile] cousinshelley) wrote2026-07-05 07:21 pm

Likes and DNWs for Exchanges

Things I Like and DNWs

  • Friendship, found families, loyalty, love, deep emotional connections, devotion, displays of affection and respect
  • Third person POV
  • Flirting, pining, UST and especially getting together fic
  • Possessiveness
  • Missing scenes and fix-its, as well as case-fic and plotty stories
  • Protectiveness and characters sacrificing their own comforts to help others
  • Mutual pining with a happy ending, unrequited love finally realized
  • Hurt/comfort, especially after a nightmare, tending wounds, caring for them when they're ill or injured, hovering after something traumatic and trying to take their mind off things
  • Tropes like only one bed and every other possible bedsharing scenario, fake couple/marriage leading to the inability to keep hiding feelings, forced proximity and bonus if there’s peril
  • First kiss, first times, first realization of feelings
  • Humor, snark and banter, laughing and joking with each other
  • Happy or at the very least ambiguously hopeful endings

NSFW Likes:

  • I like stories with no sex, fade-to-black, or full-on smut, so write whatever level you prefer.
  • I do like at least as much if not more focus on the emotions as on what body part goes where or what position people are in.
  • Porn with feelings and emotional or romantic sex
  • Dubcon when requested
  • Desperate kisses and one or both partners overwhelmed with passion and feelings
  • Manhandling and displays of strength, up against the wall sex
  • Kneeling (any reason but especially for oral sex or to kiss knees or thighs or anything like that, grand)
  • Penetrative sex, oral sex, fingers, frottage, mutual masturbation or one watching the other
  • Naked and half-naked or one clothed and the other naked, basically any combo of clothed/not clothed
  • Necking, petting, face and neck and body stroking, kissing and/or sucking or licking pretty much anywhere
  • I really like up against the wall, taken from behind, and one riding the other, but any positions are fine
  • Thank god you're/we're alive sex
  • One character being suddenly so overcome with feeling and desire for the other they kiss them and initiate things out of the blue, like they can't wait another second--love those big music swell moments
  • When requested or present in canon, hair-pulling or ass-slapping in the heat of the moment
  • With appropriate pairings, like vampires, blood drinking and/or licking blood off the other’s mouth, face, neck, etc. can’t go wrong.

Do Not Want (DNWs):

I have exceptions and qualifications for DNWs in certain cases and will mention those specifically in my requests.

  • Anything related to COVID19 or politics
  • AUs except canon divergence
  • Major character death, disabling or fatal illness or injury
  • Self-harm and suicide
  • Unhappy or bleak endings
  • Script format/only dialogue
  • 1st and 2nd person POV
  • Original character or unrequested character POV
  • Unrequested gender and sexuality headcanons
  • Cruelty to animals or animal death
  • Infidelity and friend/partner betrayal
  • Holiday stories (Halloween is the exception)
  • Unrequested crossovers or crack fic
  • Speculative elements (ghosts, aliens, sex pollen) in non-speculative canons
  • Kidfic, pregnancy or birth of any kind

Sex-Related DNWs:

  • Non-con
  • Underage
  • BDSM, D/s and/or consent negotiations
  • Generic dirty talk, porn film dialogue during/about sex, calling someone slut, whore or other names
  • Mommy/Daddy kink
  • Sex toys
  • Sexual pain and torture, hitting, suffocating, dehumanization, humiliation, even if consensual
  • Body secretions or wastes, spitting, and come play. (Come is fine, even a brief description, but please don’t focus on it. Sweat is fine, and so is blood in vampire and horror canons.)

To clarify on the serious illness or injury, referencing canon trauma is fine but please don’t give anyone a non-canonical serious physical or mental condition. Injuries and illnesses that can heal are fine, like someone getting shot or having the flu or broken bones.